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So I Moved Out

Happy Almost Friday! It’s been awhile (and do not start singing Staind like my boyfriend did… I HATE THAT SONG). So by the title I am guessing you can tell that I have had a major life change within the past month. I (finally as my mom would say) moved out!

“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.”

I was blessed enough to have parents who let me be a mooch for 23 years of my life. I say mooch, but that sounds harsh… I took care of myself and always had a job. 😉 But my parents always supported me when I needed it, gave me a roof and a shower, and somehow always had the things I needed. Due to me living with them, I had the opportunity to save enough money to buy a home.

Now, let me tell you home ownership has been a wild ride and it has only been six weeks. You never realize all of what you need while living at your parents, you just don’t think of things like bandaids, a can opener, a paper towel holder or even paper towels! My first trip to the grocery store only included… dun, dun, dun… groceries. We did not by paper towels, laundry detergent, hand soap… and missed plenty of other things. The only reason I had toilet paper was because my mother donated it to us!

It hasn’t been all bad, but it is funny to think of all the things my parents had and why. While living there, all I thought was “wow this place is cluttered” and my dad would respond with “you never know when you’ll need it”. Well, he was halfway right (he’s a lightweight hoarder, you don’t need 10 empty boxes of litter lol).

I know what you’re thinking… have a house warming party. This is something we will do, eventually. I want the place to be perfect before I have a load of people inside. Ya know?

I have enjoyed every single bit of this though. I do not regret a thing. I cannot wait to make this house my home and experience the troubles and triumphs ahead.

What advice do you have for someone who just left the nest? Comment below!

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8 Comments

  • Reply
    Shelbie
    June 2, 2017 at 2:25 am

    It’s okay to cry! It was a little different for me because I was 18 lol but after a few weeks on my own, I cried…every night…for a week. I missed my parents so bad! So, it’s okay to cry & it’s okay to miss them. Just make sure you always visit them and call them every day!

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      layla_helton@hotmail.com
      June 2, 2017 at 2:59 am

      I definitely miss my parents, now, I don’t miss cleaning up after them. 😉

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    Susan Alig
    June 2, 2017 at 2:56 am

    Don’t wait for perfect. A perfect house is one that is lived in. Consider your house warming part of that making a house a home where those family and friends can help make it feel that way.

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      layla_helton@hotmail.com
      June 2, 2017 at 2:59 am

      You make a good argument. It’s so hard for me to bring people in when I have all these ideas on what it could look like before they come. Maybe we will have a summer shindig 🙂

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    Corie Ann
    June 2, 2017 at 1:30 pm

    Get a member ship to either Sam’s or Costco (if you haven’t). There are some things at those stores that are great to buy in bulk and you’ll save some money too! Paper towels, toilet paper and laundry detergent are three things I love buying at warehouse stores!! (:

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      layla_helton@hotmail.com
      June 2, 2017 at 9:41 pm

      I definitely need to get a membership to one of those places!

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    Tricia hackney
    June 2, 2017 at 8:06 pm

    Set your amazon account to regularly deliver toilet paper and trash bags ? I’m waiting for the rest of Rachel’s house warming gift to get here – but part of it is seriously a case of TP lol

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      layla_helton@hotmail.com
      June 2, 2017 at 9:42 pm

      TP was the first thing my mom got me! & I am sure it will be the first thing I forget when I run out. I didn’t know you could set amazon to regularly deliver, I am jumping on that ASAP!

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